This is a nice try at "not all men."
The election was lost by disinformation fanning toxic racism and misogyny.
If you really want women to stop choosing the bear, talk to your bros about their overall dangerousness. Women’s experience (what we rely on in a bifurcated decision like 'man/bear') says our odds are better with the bear.
By putting "toxic" in front of "feminism" you become part of the problem because you are carrying water for misogyny. I don’t know any toxic feminists — the ones who want men killed, tortured or raped — but I do know some angry ones.
On the other hand, I can point to a lot of toxic masculists who want women to shut up and take the blame like good girls.