Oh, man. That sort of overwhelm swallows you whole. And for selfish, ungrateful parents…. Wow. I hope you see your way clear to taking care of YOU. They are living the life they created, and it’s not up to you to save them from it. (Though it’s kind of you to try…). I’m amazed you had the energy to write about it — and so well! Sending love and light and some nice hiking boots.