Not sure why SallyMJ takes it on herself to “compassionately” tell you that your anger is unjustified. I don’t see you “yelling at the good men.” Personally, I think your anger isn’t nearly off the chart enough. (I wonder what chart she is using…) because the maturity expectations for men are so culturally out of whack that I’m not sure we can ever find the balance. Thanks for writing this, and thanks for being angry for all the right reasons. If men are offended or get into that “not all men…” space, then perhaps it’s hitting just a little too close to home. (Instead of whimpering “not all men…” they could be wondering, “am I this way?” Just a thought.). Keep doing what you’re doing.